The guys with the highest standards also have the lowest notch counts. – Rian Stone (I believe.)
Ah, standards. Precious standards. If it wasn’t for all of your high standards, you might actually live a little, meet some fun women, get your dick wet, and hell, maybe even fall in love and have some type of relationship.
But no.
It’s better to have standards, right fellas? It’s better to “walk on by” than it is to take a chance with some random, good looking woman, and see what happens.
It’s better to get into fights with strangers on the internet. It’s better to call some random chick a 304 and try to hold her accountable instead of talking to her.
It’s better to hustle and grind. It’s better to sun your balls and drink black coffee. It’s better to go into “monk mode.”
It’s better to say that “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze,” than it is to admit that you’re a pussy.
It’s better to LARP and have your “brotherhood” than it is to go out and talk to some women. Nasty, evil, vile wahmen! Yuck!
Welcome to 2023!
Happy New Year to everyone except all those people that I just mentioned. All of you can piss off.
Happy New Year to everybody who is willing, ready, able, and excited to meet new people!
Happy New Year to the guys that “would.”
Happy New Year to the women that “would.”
Happy New Year to to everyone except the guys who want to “crush it with passion,” because fuck those guys.
Wait Rob, aren’t you the guy that “would?” I have seen you quote tweet on Twitter all the fucking time about some random “mid” that you “would.” (Fucking cat photo!)
Yep, that’s me. That’s my New Year’s Resolution.
Same as last year and the year before.
Why would I want to “crush it with passion” unless I’m “crushing her with passion?”
Why would I want to “hustle and grind?” Girls don’t need no man for money, they can make their own, and they usually do. Money has never been an issue for me and the women that I meet, so why is it an issue for you?
My height (or lack of it) isn’t an issue for her or me, so why is your height an issue for you?
My baldness isn’t an issue for her or me, so why is yours for you?
I’ll be 51 shortly, (sometimes I can’t believe that I have lived this long) and guess what? My age isn’t an issue for her, so why is yours for you?
I live an average life as far as housing, vehicles, and possessions are concerned. None of that shit matters to her, why does yours, or the lack of it, matter to you?
Yes, I’m the guy who “would.” Why not? What else have you got?
Read another book? I’ve done it. Watch another video? I’ve done that as well and most of the content that is being produced lately is sorely lacking. Plus, I have shit to do. I don’t have the time or the patience for watching red meat and nonsense when there’s women out there that “would.”
So what are you going to do in 2023? The same old shit? (Probably.)
It’s almost the end of 2022, and I’m very satisfied with how things are going in my life at the moment. I’m satisfied with my blog, I’m satisfied with my YouTube channel, I’m satisfied with my relationships with my women, and I’m satisfied with the malarkey that is Twitter.
I have also had a few people reach out to me from various sources, all of them asking me a similar question:
“Rob, what do you think about women in the ‘Sphere?”
Jack Napier wrote about it 6 months ago, almost to the day. That was his take, and personally, I almost think he said it better than I could, but then again, I’m being asked what my opinion is, so I’m going to give it as I have had time to think about it now.
So what do I think about women in the ‘Sphere?
When I was first asked this, I was a little shocked and puzzled. That’s because I literally don’t think about women in the ‘Sphere. They have always been there to one degree or another, and they are more like a television or stereo that is on, but the volume is low. They are basically “background noise” to me. Women in the ‘Sphere have zero impact on my life, so I could really care less if they are there or not.
I believe it was Roissy who coined the phrase, “When it comes to women you aren’t fucking, whatever they say or do is either amusing, interesting, or irrelevant. You don’t take them seriously.” Granted, I’m paraphrasing a bit here, and if I’m wrong about the source, I’m totally fine with someone coming and pointing out the error of my ways.
That’s how I look at women online and in real life. If I’m not fucking them, I don’t take them seriously. Even if I’m fucking them, I seldom take them seriously, until it’s time to be serious.
When someone asks me, “Rob, what’s your thoughts on women in the ‘Sphere?” I realize that it is important to them. Otherwise, why are they asking this question? Why are they asking me what my “take” is? Clearly it’s important to the questioner, but my question to them is, “Why is this important to you?” Why do you care if women are here or not?
Make no mistake: How you feel or how I feel about women in the ‘Sphere is totally irrelevant. They are already here and have been for some time. Some have been in this “space” longer than I have been. I have seen plenty of women come and go, and I have seen some stick around forever, for god knows why. The point is, there’s nothing you can do about it. You can’t “gate keep” them. If they want in, they will find a way. So why worry or care about it?
I guess you could create your own platform and bring on some people who want to be full-time gatekeepers and maybe that’ll keep the women out for a while, but I know I don’t want that job. I have shit to do, I have a life. I don’t have time to inspect every account that shows up to see if their “man card” is legit or not. So what are you going to do?
I see women in the ‘Sphere and most of the time, they are just wanting male attention. So they say inflammatory things, hyperbolic things just to get a reaction. And most of you guys fall for it every time. It says more about you than it does about them. They are literally being “bratty little sisters,” and you are reacting to some nonsense that they threw out there to see who would bite. Talk about “failing a shit test.” Talk about having “no frame.” And I promise you, it’s not a good look to them, and it’s not a good look for you.
If you are constantly annoyed or angry about something a woman said, you have some work to do. If you find yourself needing to “correct her,” or feeling the need to “hold her accountable,” you have some work to do. If you find yourself constantly replying to her, congratulations, you have work to do. You can’t be constantly reacting to something some random asshole on the internet said, without having some work to do.
I find your lack of self awareness disturbing.
So women are in the ‘Sphere, they have always been here, and honestly, there’s going to be more of them coming as the Red Pill becomes more mainstream and more popular. It’s a fact, so get used to it. You have a choice of whether you choose to engage them and react to them, or you can choose to find whatever they say or do, interesting, amusing, or irrelevant. You can always mute or block them. You can always just keep scrolling. That’s usually what I do, I just keep scrolling.
I don’t take anything they say or do personally because I’m not fucking any of them, they don’t know me, I don’t know them, and so why should I let them bother me? Like I said earlier, they have zero impact on my life. Why are you letting it bother you?
The Red Pill started out as “guys swapping notes” about intergender dynamics, A.K.A., getting laid. It was never meant to be a “boys club” where women were seen as the adversary or the enemy. It was never meant to be a “Brotherhood.” At least that’s my take on it. I found this “space” to see if there was things that I didn’t know that would help me do even better than I was already doing with women. And lo and behold, there was some things. So I tried them out. I kept what worked, discarded what didn’t, and fine-tuned some of the stuff that worked some of the time to make it work more often than not. That’s what this “space” is to me. I don’t care if women are here or not, because they are here anyways.
I can understand a guy who just barely found this “space” having reservations. Your whole life just got upended. Maybe your wife divorce raped you. Maybe you found out your girl of several years was cheating on you. I’m sorry if those things are the case. But you have been listening to women your whole life, from the time you was a little boy. I know, because I was there too. At some point though, you have to take accountability for your life and realize that at least some part of it is your fault. You got here because you listened to women tell you what to do and how to behave. Maybe listening to them and reacting to them isn’t the best course of action?
What’s that saying? “Don’t ask a fish to tell you how to fish? Ask a fisherman?” Talk to guys instead of listening to women until you get your life on the course that you want it to go.
Here’s my own personal silver lining though:
Women in the ‘Sphere are practice for me. Since I don’t take them seriously, I keep my interactions with them fun and light-hearted. I flirt and I banter with them. I tease them. Much like women that I meet in real life or through some online dating app, it keeps me sharp and it’s far more entertaining and amusing to me than listening to the latest “masculinity” account (which they are all interchangeable if you care to check) tell me I should be more like Marcus Aurelius or that I should take cold showers, drink black coffee, go into “Monk Mode,” or sun my balls. You want to dry up a woman’s vagina? Be a Stoic. Be a philosopher.
It’s far more fun and entertaining for me to be the Devil whispering in her ear than anything. And yes, this includes “Trad Women.” There’s no such thing as a “trad woman,” there’s just women.
So what are my thoughts about women in the ‘Sphere?
Bring them on, I don’t care.
This isn’t a “Brotherhood.” There is no “us versus them.” This isn’t a “united front.” And who is “we,” motherfucker?
It’s a far more interesting space with them than without them. We are “better together” than not. They are not the enemy or the adversary. And if you can’t see that? You have work to do.
“Bunny” wrote an interesting tweet asking the guys if they could predict if a woman would be good in bed, and what the “Tells” are, if any.
Of course, guys had to jump in as the “armchair experts” that they are, and tell “Bunny” that yes, they knew what a good predictor of a woman being good in bed was.
“Your Honor, I would like to present Exhibit A:”
Don’t worry if you can’t read this hot mess without zooming in, I’ll save you the suspense:
Now I’m not the “World’s Greatest Lover,” not even close. But I have learned from my own experience though, and it’s what I said above: “The truth is, you’ll never know how good she is in bed, until you have slept with her. Even then, it changes from the first time to the last time. There are no ‘slut tells.'”
You’ll never know how “good” she is until you fuck her.
I’ve met women with tattoos and piercing galore, they were average. At best. I’ve met women who had no tattoos or piercings, they were average at best. I’ve met women who dress provocatively, they were average. I’ve also met women who dressed conservatively, and they too, were average. I’ve also met some women who had tats or didn’t and they were steller in bed. Same with piercings, and same with provocative or conservative dress.
I’ve met women who could dance, but could barely fuck. I’ve met women who had “two left feet,” and were “fuck machines.” I have also met the opposite. Some could dance and fuck, while the clumsy one’s were mediocre in bed.
I have met women who were great kissers, which matters a lot to me. They were average in bed. I have also met women who literally licked me, they were so all over the place when it came to kissing, and they were average in bed. I have also met some great kissers who were amazing in bed, and I have met some women who slobbered all over my face, and they too, were great in bed.
I have met women who were “exuberant and enthusiastic,” but they didn’t quite have the motions down. I have also met some who were more “low key” and man, they could fuck.
I have had women talk all sorts of nasty shit in my ear and they turned out to be mediocre. I’ve also had women say the same shit and deliver. I have had women blush at the thought of dirty talk, but they knew how to fuck. (My ex-gf) I have also had women who also blushed at dirty talk and they ended up being mediocre to average in bed.
“Kitten”, who I have written about in the past, is tattooed galore, was an excellent kisser, and was great in bed. She was exuberant and enthusiastic, but she was all over the place as well. I still enjoyed fucking her though, even if she was a big spazz. That’s part of what I liked about her. She tended to dress provocatively no matter where she was, or who she was around.
The belly dancer is more reserved, more demure. She tends to dress conservatively, unless she is around me. Then she tends to show more skin. That’s because she knows what I like. She’s also a great kisser and is great in bed.
“Teriyaki” was a decent kisser, had only one tattoo, and she was decent in bed. I have had better, I have had worse. Still a fun woman to be around though.
One of the things that I have come to consider is this:
Does everything “line up?” Every guy has a different dick. Different length, girth, and the way that it bends or slopes.
Women are no different. Some pussies are tighter than others, some aren’t. And no, it has nothing to do with how many guys she has been with or how many kids she has had or not. I have been with some women who had given birth to multiple children and that pussy was tight. I have also been with women who had no kids and the pussy wasn’t as tight.
I have put women into certain sexual positions where I was able to tap their cervix. I have also put other women into that same position and came nowhere near their cervix.
Sometimes everything “lines up” and is a great “fit.” That to me, makes for the greatest sex, whether she knows what she is doing or not. Sometimes shit just doesn’t “line up” and no matter how much you “put your back into it,” and she puts her “ass into it,” it ends up being mediocre. That’s been my experience at least.
Which goes back to what I said earlier:
There’s no way to know if she is good in bed or not, until you have slept with her. And even then, it changes with time. The first time can be exciting and awkward. She holds back, she’s “in her head.” She’s worried about what you think about her body. But after a couple of times, she realizes that you aren’t judging her, and she opens up.
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