Author: Jack Napier

Loneliness

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This post has been sitting here for 2 months and during my trip in Philly Rob told me to post it because he liked it and convinced me it needed to be shared. So here it is.

Before I start I want to adress that I know about guys who haven’t had sex, let alone a date in years, but there is another form of loneliness and that’s the one where you’re surrounded by people.

This doesn’t get discussed as much at all in the sphere.

I have troubles getting “dates”, of course, as any man in the 22’s might encounter because of the over inflated ego’s of women in their 20’s, but I DO get dates and even “better” I DO get laid.

Which is where to trouble begins.

That’s all I get.

Mind you I don’t want a “committed” relationship.

My perfect relationship would be exclusive friends with benefits where I do my thing, she does hers and we come together to share what happened that day/week, of course have sex and maybe go out or stay in together.

But it does come down to something that continues.

Which for a while now I can’t seem to get.

Most girls I date want to have sex with me, want to get chocked, spanked, talked down to, called a slut and/or whore, tied up, beaten with a belt, anally fingered while being fucked from behind, spat on and or in the mouth by me.

But not a second date.

After a while I just stopped texting after the first date to see what happens, but not much came out of it.

Then I did start texting again to see if maybe it WOULD help to get a second date again, but to no avail.

The worst text I ever got from a girl who I shagged with for an entire afternoon leading to blood on my back read: “I don’t do second dates”.

Which to me just read as: “I am a loose slut and don’t care anymore admitting I wanted a dicking by you, but don’t you think I want anything else to do with you.”

Which to some might be a complete mindfuck.

“Why are you complaining about that! Why are you worried about only getting sex and not needing to worry about anything else!?”

Because my friend, there is no solace in numbers.

Which you will know once you get the numbers.

It’s kind of a paradox, but if you know you know.

Humans are social creatures and for all the ALPHA™ talk I’ve seen it doesn’t address the emptiness you start feeling after a while when no woman want to actually spend time with you after just a couple of hours fucking.

Is it me?

Am I not fucking well enough? (which should be clear after round 1, so if this were the case there’d be not other rounds)

Am I not interesting enough?

This girl just spend an entire afternoon/evening with me exchanging bodily fluids without even really knowing me, letting me do kinky shit to her while degrading her without me needing to pay for it other than time.

I just show up, spit a little “game” at her and we’re naked.

But that’s all I get.

I don’t get the

“Hey I had fun, wanna hang out again?”

“Hey I had fun, how’s your day going?”

“Hey I’ve been thinking of you. What are you up to?”

I get the mouth, pussy and occasional ass and that’s it.

Upside down world right here I know. 

Now I might be bad at sex, I am very well aware of that might being the case.

But I have been thanked after sex and begged for more rounds, so I really doubt that’s it….

“Then why do you sleep with them right away! You have a choice too you know!”

And to that, my dear reader, I say: You are right BUT after having many same night lays I know that if a woman WANTS to fuck you, she will find a way TO fuck you. *Rollo Tomassi Did It Trademark*. She doesn’t let the guy she wants wait. And if I don’t take her up on that offer someone else will.

This is why I rarely do dates with a girl who sys “Oh I don’t hang out right away”

She doesn’t hang out right away with me.

Girls who aren’t as into you as the girl who will sleep with you on a first date are a time waster to me, because there is some guy out there who they WOULD do it for.

And that’s oke. 

So now what?

Well I think there is a grey area somewhere in here I haven’t fully explored yet.

With some girls it was very openly and clearly about fucking, but with some it was about the date, it ended it the bedroom and we did end up spending more time together.

So maybe that’s where the answer lies.

To some this might read like “woe is me”, but to me it’s sharing an experience I hope will strike a chord with some other guys who are experiencing the same hollow premise “dating” has become.

Update: Rob told me “sprinkle a little beta on it” and I now have 2 girls in the rotation. More on that LATER.

Peterson’s most overlooked advice

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Jordan Peterson

Rob will probably throw me off his blog after smearing it with Jordan Peterson’s advice, but before you do, hear me out.

“If you’re harmless you’re not virtuous, you’re just harmless, you’re like a rabbit…. If you’re a monster and you don’t act monstrously, then you’re virtuous.” -Jordan Peterson

This is one of if now my favorite quotes by Peterson and OF COURSE most overlooked by his pansy followers.

I know a lot of guys who look up to Peterson, but don’t go farther then self satisfyingly clean their own room, wash their dick and pet a cat every time they encounter one on the streets. Every now and then they lift as well.

But they are still rabbits.

Maybe clean, orderly and buff rabbits, but rabbits nonetheless. 

“Bodybuilders are pussies!” – Andrew Tate

Now that’s 2 people Rob isn’t very fond of, can I make it to a third?

But ole buddy, ole pal Andrew was right. Just because you lift iron doesn’t make you capable.

It makes you strong, though since my trip to Portugal I am willing to argue that, but it doesn’t make you weak and it does improve your overall physique, posture and overall state of mind.

But positivity never defended the castle.

What defended the castle was an ability and willingness to go medieval on someone.

Not to enjoy it persé but to be ABLE to.

To go nuclear on anyone who dares to threaten and eventually harm what had been built up or even worse someone’s loved one’s.

To have that capability, that edge.

But most of Peterson’s fanbase doesn’t have it. They’re buff rabbits on the course of virtue and  goodness telling themselves “I’m not like that” when introduced to the possibility of taken up a kickboxing class cause “I might get hurt!”

Which is exactly the point, but in that pain there is a learning experience. You learn to defend, but also to attack.

“But I don’t like to attack. I’m not violent”

Neither am I, dipshit, but I am capable of violence. Which is all one needs.

If you are truly wanting and willing to be a well rounded individual who can protect his family and friends from harm you must learn to be capable of violence.

For as Machiavelli once stated:

“He who is good will suffer under those who are not so good”

PHILOSOPHICAL QUOTE! THAT’S THREE!

I’m OUT!

In all seriousness though.

Learn to box, be capable of violence and not violent.

I recommend Jon Fitch on Youtube if you want to get a taste and otherwise go to a local kickboxing dojo and take a class.

“I’d rather be a soldier in a garden than a gardener in a war.” – Ancient proverb.

Sorry Rob, I had to get that quote in there.

Women In The Sphere

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JustPearlyThings/ Torshaa / The Feminine Truth

Note: This is not a personal attack nor a criticism of anyone. This is a question I have asked myself for a while and am now deciding to think out loud to hopefully get a discourse going and find the answer.

Since the last year or maybe two there have been female content creators popping up in the sphere.

The manosphere. 
Rule Zero:

Rule Zero: Stay On Topic
From ye olde TRP forum – “TRP’s mission is to discuss men’s identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. 

We are not interested in debating or defending our experiences to those who disagree with the red pill, nor do we want to clog up our threads defending the morality of our choices.”

If your post does not add value, your post will be removed. The moderators will continue to work to ensure the signal to noise ratio is correct.

At first I didn’t really know what to think of women popping up in the sphere. I had seen a couple of women before interacting with known sphere content creators but it only confirmed I don’t like fish and rice.

But over time more and more women kept popping up regurgitating red pill maxims.

And all I could think about was why? Why would women want to advance and optimize the male sexual strategy?

Why is the most sought after commodity in the world in such an unattractive space?

Some are indeed over 30, which many of us know is “the wall“, but some were in their early twenties.

Why the hell were they here?

Were they pick me girls? 

Where they doing it for the male attention? 

A lot of content consumers in the sphere are still stuck in their blue pill ways that they’ll gladly give up their coin of the realm to look at an easy on the eyes women as long as she says what he wants to hear.
 

I even went as far as travel through the ancient archives and seek wisdom from the 4 mod lords of the old forums to ask for guidance.

RuleZeroDad pointed me towards a certain direction and bestowed upon me the wisdom which they had long ago achieved to just let them be and smirk.

There is however no one till this day that wrote a better essay on this than Ian motherfucking Ironwood.

https://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-male-social-matrix-back-to-sandbox.html

But this time it was different because this time the women in the sphere were getting involved into the content being created by men who were there when the sphere was built.

So was it the gatekeepers who needed to be gate kept?

Spearheads who used to be very vocal about there not being any red pill women were now hosting shows together with them.

https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/there-are-no-red-pill-women.40721*

Another trend that seems to be gaining traction are these ‘red pill women’ who attention whore on twitter by tagging all the red pill heavy hitters (Roosh, Illimitable Man, Rollo Tomassi, etc.) to show how red pill they are and it’s little more than a thinly veiled attempt at getting ‘alphatention’. It’s easy to see that most of these chicks act exact the same as feminists what with their cleavage laden selfies, witty remarks, and the like. The only difference is that they do it with the approval of redpill red pill aware men….most of which are the purveyors of The Red Pill. – Donovan Sharpe

*Note: This is not me bashing Donovan Sharpe. This is me wondering what made him change his mind. People live life and experience new and different things that will change their previous perspective. I pity the man who thinks the same as he did 5 years ago. This is nothing more than an example of what made me wonder about this phenomenon.

Or was there something going on that I did not see or was able to think of?

Then some of them reached out to me and at first I was skeptical as I am with all women is this space.

Because again: why here?

But all of my interactions with some of the female content creators of this space have been nothing but pleasant. Maybe some misinterpretations here and there but those were easily cleared within a 2 sentence exchange.

So nothing wrong from that end.

Then what was I missing, what is happening to my beloved He-man woman haters club?

And then you see it…

As I was walking up the mounting in Trina and deeply pondering this phenomenon again after reading Fabius Maximus his brilliant posts about the gender war where he was dialoging with Dalrock about what the future might hold it FINALLY hit me.

This was always going to happen no matter what

Women, to some of your surprise actually have it pretty difficult.

*Record scratch

*Sound of rumbling chains, pitchforks and sound of a fluid being poured which probably means torches and the thunderous sound of battle formations all within seconds start to appear.

‘HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT WOMEN HAVE IT DIFFICULT. THERE IS NO MORE PRIVILAGED GROUP THAN THE WESTERN WOMAN. THEY GET ALL THE MONEY, CUSTODY AND ATTENTION IN THE WORLD WITH THE SNAP OF THEIR FINGERS!’

*Me putting my most fanciest of boots on to be 2 inches taller and now raising my arms to addressing the angry mob:

‘Friends! Noblemen, Countrymen! LEND ME YOUR EAR!’

Not only are western women the most privileged group, they are also the most lied to.

And the consequences of those lies are just starting to reveal themselves.

“Imagine being a pretty young girl. Maybe you are, maybe you were and have since blossomed from a pretty girl into a pretty woman. Who is honest with you?

Men want to sleep with you will tell you what you want to hear so they can. They will lie to you because they want you

Men who actually love you will tell you what you want to hear so they don’t upset you. They will lie to you because they care about you

Other women will tell you what you want to hear because they think it’s more important to keep conflict down than to be honest. They will lie because they are conflict averse

And a few women are jealous and will tell you what you want to hear because they don’t want you to be better than them. Some chicks are just jealous.

-Rian Stone – “Womens relationship advice is garbage”

From the catastrophic results of single mother households, to the opioid crisis in single women aged 30 to 45 to alcohol consumption in that same category.

It can no longer be denied women are miserable for all the changes that have occurred that made them so equal to men.

One only needs to looks to the happiness measurements taken from women and compare those from decades ago till today.

One must me truly heartless to not feel pity.

And I say pity instead of empathy because well they kinda did it themselves, but that does not mean I wish this fate upon them.


And within this realization I started wondering.

Could it be that within that wide margin of women a few got their head out of their well shaped tight solipsistic asses and realized something had to be done?

There is most certainly a blue pill for women and they as well need to unplug.

No, it’s not the same as out little sphere and no the process will be completely different for a couple of maxims will hold true.

Women are and men must become – Rollo Tomassi

But instead of squandering that away as the great feminist lie tells them to, maybe some of the knowledge men have collected over the years might seem useful to those willing to seek it out.

And then we get to my answer to why all of this is happening, or well me understanding it because someone else OF COURSE already mentioned it.

Men and women are better together than they are apart. But were are not equal we are complimentary – Rollo Simpson Tomassi

And that is exactly what is happening.

Women are starting to seek out answers for themselves on why things are happening as they are happening and even though we have our own set of lies who need to awaken from, men and women DO want each other.

But since we have been drifting so far apart it’s not going to be easy.

This is also not me saying we should welcome every ditz in the sphere with open arms and let’s make the manosphere into a peoplesphere.

This is me acknowledging what is going on and I am not going to be as hostile towards it as I was.

Both the sexes have been lied to and both the sexes are suffering in the long term for it.

Men were just earlier with admitting it and fixing it for themselves.

As they were with the student debt crisis, the fiat currency crisis, the housing crisis and every other crisis known to man.

Now there are few women reaching out and even though the clubhouse is still boys only that doesn’t mean we can’t meet in the playground and discuss and share some ideas.