Dads approval

‘You’re not a man if you retire your parents!’ -Some dips hit online

First off: I wanted my dad’s approval so bad when I was young. I craved him to tell me he was proud.

It was cringe, it was unnecessary and it wasn’t productive and it sure as hell didn’t get me what I want.

Yet here we are on twitter where grown adults still hunger for that pat on the back they never got from dad and hoping to receive it from the audience.

Spoiler alert: You won’t get it.

Dad was at work, out fishing, grabbing a pack of smokes, just getting drunk at the bar avoiding your nagging mom or just sitting in his chair reading covered up porn magazines and here you are crushing it and dad still looks at you like you aren’t shit.

He probably never got the approval from his dad and now he’s not giving his to you.

“Suck it, kid!”

Now does this sound like a man who’s approval you even want?

What about your approval of yourself?

Ever thought of that?

Is the man who’s approval you want so bad someone who you approve of? 

But hey, you get dumped, found out you never had a father figure and here’s someone telling you to clean your room or telling you that dad is god in the house and honor him no matter what and you need to give up your life like he did.

So you start making millions and brag about it online to all your surrogate daddies.

That’ll show him!

How about you stop caring what dad thinks and instead of being in dad’s frame you start making your own?

How about, instead of retiring your parents, you ask why they never got their shit together and now have to rely on you and thus cheers on the shaming tactics cause by god do they suit their cause!

And chanting those same shaming tactics will get you that fatherless crowd cheering you on cause by god that will show dad!

Look at me I’m retiring my parents! Dad sure as hell is proud of me!

The Peter-Pan Paradox

Clean your room! – Jordan Peterson

After being back on Twitter I get trad platitudes thrown in my face daily. It’s either from some anon masculinity account or Aly/realfemsapien. One of the 2 I can forgive for being an idealist.

The trad platitudes are all the same. Clean your room, earn enough green, don’t play video games, don’t bang hoes and ruin women.

All the things sexless men would say to other sexless men to feel better about themselves.

And even though deep down inside I know it’s nonsense it did get me thinking about certain things.

Most of the girls I date are just as promiscuous as I am and that’s oke. Some more than others and some even more than I.

But getting confronted with trad platitudes did get me thinking that maybe me choices in life withheld me from getting with the ‘high quality woman’.

Was’t I getting ‘high quality’ women because I wasn’t acting ‘high quality’ or wasn’t I acting ‘high quality’ because I wasn’t getting ‘high quality’ women?

What if I got my act together by going back to a government job, sell ALL my lego’s and Pokemon cards and just donate my Switch?

Get a mortgage, buy designer furniture and wear nice brand clothing, go out to bars and clubs more and attend social gatherings flexing my status.

Would I get ‘better quality’ women?

The answer, of course, is no.

Women are women and that’s oke.

They’re all ‘hypergamous’ (not all of them act on it), they’re all pretty with make-up and they’re either into you or not.

But of course as some of you might know I always have to be reminded of certain obvious facts I tend to forget.

When I lay this though experiment in front of Rain Stone he stopped me in my tracks and stated that I already did that and asked what it got me more than it gets me now.

The answer is, to be honest, less of a headache.

Now I don’t have to worry about what status I have, what car I drive and or what my parents in law think of choices I make.

Now I can get the milk for free, because as I’ve learned women don’t care about that nonsense for short term sexual partners and when invested after being fuck buddies for a while already know what they’re getting into and have decided that they don’t care about anything else but me.

I’ve had good relationships while keeping my foot down about my choices in life and they wouldn’t sway from my side until something like choosing between me and her parents came up.

Where she OF COURSE didn’t choose me.

Disclaimer: For you retards thinking I put this ultimatum forward: I didn’t. She wanted me to meet her parents and they were either A. righteous cunts or B. I thought it was too soon.

I learned what settling for parents in law brings and it isn’t pretty.

She couldn’t live with it and I couldn’t be swayed so we wished each other the best.

Trad is a fantasy, a business model, a platitude and a coca-cola commercial.

The last close to trad situation I was into was when I found out during Christmas she had been texting her ex.

So even when I did everything ‘right’ women are going to be women and what you think is ‘right’ isn’t what actually works.

You don’t need to ‘grow up’ and take responsibility over anyone else but yourself.

Do that, clean yourself up, at least be groomed, lift, eat right and you’ll notice by having that and be at least charming you’ll come a long way without needing to set yourself on fire and keep daddy Peterson, Reeve, Walsh, Platitude Of Man warm while you take responsibility without being granted authority over your own life.

There is no ‘boy crisis’.

Please forgive the clickbait title.

When it comes to single MOTHER households, the drop of testosterone and suicide there indeed is a crisis among men.

But there is no ‘college crisis’ or ‘labor force crisis’ when it comes to men.

Yes, men are dropping out left and right and are less ‘educated’ than women, but hear me out.

This is a good thing for a multitude of reasons.

Apparently all graduates are now 58% or so female, to which I ask ‘as what?’

You have to keep in mind that with most of these ‘researches’ they take the average and use terms in the general description.

With ‘graduates’ dumb shit like ‘art history’ and ‘music therapy’ graduates are also included.

And just like the pay gap when you take averages the outcome can be used to push an agenda.

Aka ‘women earn less than men!’ which on average is true, but on average men also make more hours, have better paying jobs etc. etc. etc. You know the drill.

Now take the ‘men are dropping out of the workforce’ narrative.

To which I ask: ‘which part of the workforce?’

Rollo put me onto Richard Reeves new book ‘Of Boys And Men’ and before I actually purchased the book that contains everything I already know, I wondered what the problem this week was.

I read this article:

Note: He addresses that the pay gap has 2 sides and men have been starting to earn less, but he doesn’t mention the horrible manipulative message the pay gap actually is, so this guy to me is part of the problem he spews to want to be solving.

Another sock puppet for the societal feminine imperative. 

And in said article there was something that confirmed my suspicion about it not being about the overall workforce, but just a part of it. A part which has more than one benefactors other than men. 

‘We’ve had decades of scholarships to get women into STEM. I think that’s been great, but I think we now need scholarships to get men into HEAL.’

‘Heal’ stands for: health, education, administration and literacy. 

And what do you know?!

All these sectors are female dominated, because of biological hardwires interests.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve worked in administration and it was boring as hell.

I tried education, and it was so feminized and rotten with marxist talking point I jumped ship right on time. 

And what the hell is literacy for a sector, as in writers?

Excuse me, but I can name you a plethora of male authors, they’re just not registered under the traditional publishing firms.

Which might just be the EXACT reason this is a so called ‘crisis’.

Men are finding their own way of getting what they need and want.

They no longer go to college because they don’t have to.

They no longer go to corporate because they don’t have to.

It just isn’t in line with what society had in mind for them and since ‘society’ a.k.a. the feminine imperative, doesn’t like to be told ‘no’, we are now in a so called ‘crisis’.

Men are failing in society!

Men are failing in college!

Oh, so they’re dropping out of white collar jobs and refuse to take life altering amounts of debt to adhere by the rules you’ve laid out to follow as  requirement to be what you deem as a ‘well functioning member of society’?

Yeah, I’ll just upload fitness advice to Youtube, let the market decide if my advice is of value and grab my forklift certificate for no less than €300 so I can get a well paying job in the blue collar sector.

There isn’t a ‘boy’ crisis in education and or the labor force.

There’s a ‘women don’t have enough men to choose from’ crisis.

There’s a ‘institutions aren’t getting paid by men and are missing out on profits because of it’ crisis. 

Don’t let the narrative fool you into going back to the plantation, boys. 

Ferral, Reeves and yes even Peterson are in the end just allies to the narrative.