Just because the game has changed doesn’t mean it’s rigged.
The game hasn’t changed, man. It’s pretty much the same as it’s always been – Rian Stone
Rian isn’t wrong and the title of this essay is a bit clickbait but you’ll have to forgive me for it.
The game has always been that women prefer short term mating partners in their most fertile years and prefer long term comfort as they age.
A great reason for this is of course fertility and an inherent conscious about her sexuality being her only agency.
The only difference in 2023 is the rules have been expanded upon.
Ever since the birth control pill women have had the option not to deal with the repercussions of sex a.k.a. pregnancy.
And ever since online dating women have had the pick of the litter x 1000.
If you have the opportunity, ask a girl if you can see her online dating profile and if she allows it I will damn near bet my Lego armada she has 100’s of likes already in the waiting to be swiped right on.
To be one of the select few to be swiped on the rules stay the same.
Be attractive, don’t be unattractive.
Andy from Kill Your Inner Loser has a whole website dedicated to maximize your online dating account so I suggest you go there.
The “issue” now is, you’re not the only one and with any minor inconvenience the girl can trade you in for the next prospect.
The number, kiss close, date, sex don’t mean jack fuck all shit anymore.
I know some of you might not want to hear this but
Girls really don’t give a crap about fucking on the first date anymore.
Or maybe in other words they don’t have to.
So what she’s a slut?
There’s a new guy who’s I just won’t tell about my adventures anyway.
Oh this guy doesn’t agree with me on something trivial and I don’t feel comfortable with that.
Ha, got 100 likes anyway.
Hm this guy was not rough enough in bed.
Maybe the next one is.
All repercussions of lack of investment have been removed since the opportunity for new prospects have been increased.
My new buddy RedHawk and I have gone back and forth on this for a while now.
And even though he and I are both cut from the cloth of “how can I improve” and though I am just a but more humble and better looking, even we can’t keep improving.
And at a certain point when two dudes from different continents together with an array of other guys are having the same situation.
You might really wonder if it isn’t you.
You have 2/3 dates that are great and all of a sudden BOOM.
Left on read, she’s busy, her dog died, her exams are coming up.
And all for you, cause I bet there’s a guy she isn’t too busy for.
Could it be something you said?
Or maybe that 30 minutes of travel got cut down for her by 5 minutes because the next match lived more nearby.
Or the guy she met in the train actually did make a move, got her number and was a better option.
The truth is, you are one in a 1000.
And women don’t have to deal with bullshit of any caliber anymore.
You are expandable.
Is this a bad thing?
It’s a though pill to swallow but it also opens up a whole new door to detachment and fun.
She’s probably going to replace your ass anyway so enjoy her while you can.
There’s always another woman.
Sure, it sucks starting the process over and over and over again.
But giving up has never been an option for the high libido male.
So drop the idealism of white picket fence, happily ever after, 2.5 kids and maybe a dog.
Cause truth is.
She’s not yours it’s just your turn.
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