Not Fucking Is The New Kewl

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The New Virtue Signalling

Not fucking doesn’t make you cool. It just makes you inexperienced.

According to recent developments in my “corner” of the Twitterverse, abstaining (i.e. not fucking) is the new cool. Now it’s not about how much experience you have, but the experience of not having. The above screenshot was a reply to a thread that was started by a epiphany phase woman, here’s the original tweet that started it all:

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“For the record, I find men that have restraint over their biological urges and deeper goals than “getting laid” as quite impressive.” Apparently, in order to be “a Real Man” these days, you shouldn’t be fucking. Your abstinence and restraint are what make you “a Real Man” in 2019. Who knew?

“I want a Man with very little experience!” – Said no woman ever.

Guys, if you are going to actually listen to this form of nonsense, you’ll just be chasing your tails. You get experience with women by doing things with women. Fucking is doing something with women. Fucking is experience. It may not be the be all, end all of experiences, but it’s up there. I’ve met plenty of women who I had very little in common with, other than sex, who kept coming back for more, than the other way around.

All of the women that I’ve had the pleasure to meet, whether I had sex with them or not, wanted or want, a Man with experience. And by experience, yes, they meant in the bedroom. Young women, older women, short women, tall women, thin women, fat women, it didn’t matter. All of them want or wanted a Man with experience.

I don’t know why, but the original post smacks of dishonesty and disingeniousness for me. It’s a bald-face lie as far as I’m concerned. And the reply that I posted above it is nothing but virtue signalling on another level.

“Don’t judge a man by the number of women he sleeps with but, rather, the number of women he decides not to sleep with, because he thinks it would be inappropriate, to do so.” Do you know what’s inappropriate? Turning down a woman who you are sexually turned on by, and she is turned on by you. Actually, maybe it’s not inappropriate, but it’s fucking stupid.

Here’s something to understand:

If a woman presents herself to you and wants to have sex with you, and you turn her down, you’ll never get another chance with her, and that’s okay if you don’t want to have sex with her. But if you do want to have sex with her, good luck salvaging that one.

“I can’t have sex with you, that would be inappropriate.” You have no idea how many times I had to hit backspace and type that one over again. I couldn’t keep a straight face and I couldn’t stop laughing. I kept misspelling it and fucking it up.

I’ve not met a woman to date that had or has an issue with my so-called “notch count.” They don’t care how I got my experience. They are glad that I have it.

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This reply sounds like some guy who belongs to the “Club For Those Who Aren’t Fucking.” Newsflash: You’re not going to humble a woman by not sleeping with her. You’re going to piss her off. And she’ll just go and find someone who will fuck her. This guy is simply justifying his lack of sex. “She wouldn’t fuck me… Well, I didn’t want to fuck her anyways! That’ll show her!”

“The man expresses that he isn’t over-indulgent and also that he is a master, not a slave to his own body.” I think this guy is…I don’t even know where to begin or what to say honestly. I’m not a “slave” to my own body. Nature designed it for fucking, so I fuck when I want to. Being “over-indulgent” is nothing but a morality statement, and you can take your morality statement and shove it up your ass. I’d rather be fucking than not fucking. Indulgence isn’t compulsion. Compulsion is slavery, indulgence is choice. This guy is conflating the two.

How is it “better” for both men and women if the man shows self-restraint? I thought it was better to “scratch that itch,” have an orgasm, and enjoy each other? War is Peace. Slavery is Freedom. Abstinence is Sex. Restraint is Release. Jesus wept.

What a world we are now living in. For the longest time, it’s been “worship the woman and her holy vagina.” Now it’s evolving into “The worship of everything about women except their vagina.” – h/t to Rian Stone for this quote.

Men will always want to get laid, it’s hardwired into them. For those who don’t or can’t, I guess it’s turning into, “Well I didn’t want her pussy anyways! Look at me being abstinent and virtuous!” The more things change the more they stay the same really. Welcome to a “New Puritanical Age.”

Fuck it. You want to be a part of the “My Experience Is Not Having Experience Club,” knock yourself out. You get to burn.

Barring that, I guess you can always join a religion that promises virgins in the afterlife for you. Fucking ghosts may be the next “new thing.” Who knows?

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