Women In The Sphere

JustPearlyThings/ Torshaa / The Feminine Truth

Note: This is not a personal attack nor a criticism of anyone. This is a question I have asked myself for a while and am now deciding to think out loud to hopefully get a discourse going and find the answer.

Since the last year or maybe two there have been female content creators popping up in the sphere.

The manosphere. 
Rule Zero:

Rule Zero: Stay On Topic
From ye olde TRP forum – “TRP’s mission is to discuss men’s identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. 

We are not interested in debating or defending our experiences to those who disagree with the red pill, nor do we want to clog up our threads defending the morality of our choices.”

If your post does not add value, your post will be removed. The moderators will continue to work to ensure the signal to noise ratio is correct.

At first I didn’t really know what to think of women popping up in the sphere. I had seen a couple of women before interacting with known sphere content creators but it only confirmed I don’t like fish and rice.

But over time more and more women kept popping up regurgitating red pill maxims.

And all I could think about was why? Why would women want to advance and optimize the male sexual strategy?

Why is the most sought after commodity in the world in such an unattractive space?

Some are indeed over 30, which many of us know is “the wall“, but some were in their early twenties.

Why the hell were they here?

Were they pick me girls

Where they doing it for the male attention? 

A lot of content consumers in the sphere are still stuck in their blue pill ways that they’ll gladly give up their coin of the realm to look at an easy on the eyes women as long as she says what he wants to hear.
 

I even went as far as travel through the ancient archives and seek wisdom from the 4 mod lords of the old forums to ask for guidance.

RuleZeroDad pointed me towards a certain direction and bestowed upon me the wisdom which they had long ago achieved to just let them be and smirk.

There is however no one till this day that wrote a better essay on this than Ian motherfucking Ironwood.

https://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-male-social-matrix-back-to-sandbox.html

But this time it was different because this time the women in the sphere were getting involved into the content being created by men who were there when the sphere was built.

So was it the gatekeepers who needed to be gate kept?

Spearheads who used to be very vocal about there not being any red pill women were now hosting shows together with them.

https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/there-are-no-red-pill-women.40721*

Another trend that seems to be gaining traction are these ‘red pill women’ who attention whore on twitter by tagging all the red pill heavy hitters (Roosh, Illimitable Man, Rollo Tomassi, etc.) to show how red pill they are and it’s little more than a thinly veiled attempt at getting ‘alphatention’. It’s easy to see that most of these chicks act exact the same as feminists what with their cleavage laden selfies, witty remarks, and the like. The only difference is that they do it with the approval of redpill red pill aware men….most of which are the purveyors of The Red Pill. – Donovan Sharpe

*Note: This is not me bashing Donovan Sharpe. This is me wondering what made him change his mind. People live life and experience new and different things that will change their previous perspective. I pity the man who thinks the same as he did 5 years ago. This is nothing more than an example of what made me wonder about this phenomenon.

Or was there something going on that I did not see or was able to think of?

Then some of them reached out to me and at first I was skeptical as I am with all women is this space.

Because again: why here?

But all of my interactions with some of the female content creators of this space have been nothing but pleasant. Maybe some misinterpretations here and there but those were easily cleared within a 2 sentence exchange.

So nothing wrong from that end.

Then what was I missing, what is happening to my beloved He-man woman haters club?

And then you see it…

As I was walking up the mounting in Trina and deeply pondering this phenomenon again after reading Fabius Maximus his brilliant posts about the gender war where he was dialoging with Dalrock about what the future might hold it FINALLY hit me.

This was always going to happen no matter what

Women, to some of your surprise actually have it pretty difficult.

*Record scratch

*Sound of rumbling chains, pitchforks and sound of a fluid being poured which probably means torches and the thunderous sound of battle formations all within seconds start to appear.

HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT WOMEN HAVE IT DIFFICULT. THERE IS NO MORE PRIVILAGED GROUP THAN THE WESTERN WOMAN. THEY GET ALL THE MONEY, CUSTODY AND ATTENTION IN THE WORLD WITH THE SNAP OF THEIR FINGERS!’

*Me putting my most fanciest of boots on to be 2 inches taller and now raising my arms to addressing the angry mob:

‘Friends! Noblemen, Countrymen! LEND ME YOUR EAR!’

Not only are western women the most privileged group, they are also the most lied to.

And the consequences of those lies are just starting to reveal themselves.

“Imagine being a pretty young girl. Maybe you are, maybe you were and have since blossomed from a pretty girl into a pretty woman. Who is honest with you?

Men want to sleep with you will tell you what you want to hear so they can. They will lie to you because they want you

Men who actually love you will tell you what you want to hear so they don’t upset you. They will lie to you because they care about you

Other women will tell you what you want to hear because they think it’s more important to keep conflict down than to be honest. They will lie because they are conflict averse

And a few women are jealous and will tell you what you want to hear because they don’t want you to be better than them. Some chicks are just jealous.

-Rian Stone – “Womens relationship advice is garbage”

From the catastrophic results of single mother households, to the opioid crisis in single women aged 30 to 45 to alcohol consumption in that same category.

It can no longer be denied women are miserable for all the changes that have occurred that made them so equal to men.

One only needs to looks to the happiness measurements taken from women and compare those from decades ago till today.

One must me truly heartless to not feel pity.

And I say pity instead of empathy because well they kinda did it themselves, but that does not mean I wish this fate upon them.


And within this realization I started wondering.

Could it be that within that wide margin of women a few got their head out of their well shaped tight solipsistic asses and realized something had to be done?

There is most certainly a blue pill for women and they as well need to unplug.

No, it’s not the same as out little sphere and no the process will be completely different for a couple of maxims will hold true.

Women are and men must become – Rollo Tomassi

But instead of squandering that away as the great feminist lie tells them to, maybe some of the knowledge men have collected over the years might seem useful to those willing to seek it out.

And then we get to my answer to why all of this is happening, or well me understanding it because someone else OF COURSE already mentioned it.

Men and women are better together than they are apart. But were are not equal we are complimentary – Rollo Simpson Tomassi

And that is exactly what is happening.

Women are starting to seek out answers for themselves on why things are happening as they are happening and even though we have our own set of lies who need to awaken from, men and women DO want each other.

But since we have been drifting so far apart it’s not going to be easy.

This is also not me saying we should welcome every ditz in the sphere with open arms and let’s make the manosphere into a peoplesphere.

This is me acknowledging what is going on and I am not going to be as hostile towards it as I was.

Both the sexes have been lied to and both the sexes are suffering in the long term for it.

Men were just earlier with admitting it and fixing it for themselves.

As they were with the student debt crisis, the fiat currency crisis, the housing crisis and every other crisis known to man.

Now there are few women reaching out and even though the clubhouse is still boys only that doesn’t mean we can’t meet in the playground and discuss and share some ideas.

What is a man?

This not not me jumping on the Matt Walsh bandwagon to try and define the sexes.

This is my 2 cents on the question of makes a real man.

The question is a trope and the answer is whatever fits the person asking it his or her agenda.

See men have the tendency to prove ourselves. 

To prove our worth, strength, intelligence, honor and or masculinity.

Which is exactly what the purpose of that whole question is.

You’re a MAN aren’t you? You’re big and strong aren’t you? Only a REAL MAN would do xyz! This is the stuff a REAL MAN drinks.

It’s a shaming tactic, that’s it.

It using your innate urge to prove and or defend yourself as a man towards the one presenting the measurement.

And it’s all worthless.

I got to this conclusion in Portugal where the local who helps out here invited us for dinner and wanted to end of with a shot of vodka.

Now even though The 48 laws of power have been ingrained in my psyche and I know to think as a like but behave as others, I can’t hold vodka for some odd reason so I thanked him and declined.

He was also the type that would say one and then tell you Portuguese tradition can’t allow you to just have one so it was a damnit if I do damned if I don’t thing anyway.

He offered again and I ever so kindly said no thank you.

To which he responded:

A real man DRINKS this! He DRINKS after his meal’

Guess my mother was more of a man than I’ll ever be.

But this got me thinking.

Here’s a simple farmer who’s very handy when it comes to hard labor, but looks like shit, divorced, lives together with his mother and has an on and off again ongoing thing with an alcoholic single mother who shags away when she’s not in Portugal. 

Now this is not to dunk on the guy, he’s WAY stronger than I’ll ever be, but there are area’s where if he was what a real man is I wouldn’t sign off on it.

Yet here he was questioning my manhood.

Now I know why, I OF COURSE was a REAL MAN and therefore I SHALL DRINK!

Little did he know that since I dabble in the Manosphere I couldn’t give 2 shits if I were a man or not according to someone’s standards.

I know plenty of tough guys who don’t cross the 6ft marker. And I’ve heard one needs to be at least that tall to ride the real man train.

So to me that’s what that whole question and challenge is, a trope. A shaming tactic to get you to act according to someone else’s wishes.

Mostly women, but every now and then a man who doesn’t like to hear no.

And what do I think a real man is?

Beats me.

And frankly I don’t care.

Is that masculine? Dunno.

All I know is that I usually measure things in the authority one has over one’s own choices and the responsibility of consequences of those choices that person takes.

No,I will stay seated. Thank you



Since it’s father’s day and the world is all up in arms on how father’s need to step up and women can be fathers too I decided to throw in my 2 cents on the whole responsibility thing.

Also a warm and honest thank you to all the fathers who are there for their kids. And to all fathers who went through hell or are going through it right now my heart goes out to you.

And to my own father, who is a very frustrating annoying old man. I love you.


As I frequently read The Daily wire to stay informed on what you Yanks are doing and therefor what the rest of the world will suffer through I can’t help but being drawn to conservative websites.

Economically they favor my leanings, so yeah.

But as with most conservatives they should really shut the fuck up about societal relationship issues because

They think like women

And as women they refuse any sort of responsibility on the fairer sex and leave that all to the men.

It is MEN who need to step up, men who are not being responsible and men who are not growing up.

https://www.dailywire.com/news/men-meet-your-responsibilities-florida-governor-ron-desantis-addresses-the-fatherlessness-behind-the-nations-problems*

*It’s not mothers needing to make better choices or owning up to that choice by staying with the dad and letting him see his fucking kids. No, dad should have just taken responsibility and let the bitch know she’s out of hand just before she called the cops and called him the aggressor. 

https://www.dailywire.com/news/this-fathers-day-americas-dads-need-to-step-up-man-up-and-show-up-for-kids

To which I ask

Why should we?

What do I get in return?

Guys like me are being called lost boys, Peter Pan syndrome boys, irresponsible, men children and the list goes on.

But have they ever stopped and wondered WHY we act like we do?

WHY does a guy like Jack just get an entry level job with low but stable pay, house hack with a family member, play video games, lift and collect Lego’s?

Because all the fairer sex has to offer these days is sex and I can get that by my looks and charm alone.

No girl ever asked what car I drive, what my mortgage is, what my education level is or if I do or do not want kids.

At least not on the first date or even second or third.

All the rest is usually debt, drugs, bad experiences, bad ideas and worst of all an attitude.

Why would I give up my semi luxury life to live in that maelstrom?

Because conservatives and feminists alike believe the same damn thing.

You need to step up and carry that weight.

Now conservatives don’t know this, because they just blindly follow their virtues and are happy the woman they did marry at 30 want to touch their peepee so they wouldn’t dare oppose wifey.

And feminist are just lazy spoiled children who want mommies freedom without daddies authority holding them responsible. 

And that my dear reader is where you come in.

YOU need to TAKE responsibility, not BE responsible. No, that’s how they sell it to you because aren’t you a man!? Isn’t that what a MAN does?!

All to get you to TAKE responsibility for the actions taken by mindless children who don’t want to face the consequences.

Or to shame fathers into working harder than they need to keep wifey happy or to demonize fathers who were put OUT of the house because she wasn’t haaaaappy. It’s never women who need to appreciate the dads.

For married man with children I’d advice you to the Married Red Pill Archive Or Rian Stone’s Youtube Channel.

My thoughts and opinions are mostly about the single guy.

This is why Game and TRP are so demonized.

It teaches men to pluck the fruits of 60 years of social engineering and not ending up taking the fall for something women should have been taking agency over from the start.

Single mom and Tyrone got you pregnant? Not my problem

Bad choice in college and stuck with student loan debts so you can’t get a mortgage? Not my problem

Lay count nearing the 100 and now ready to settle down? Not my problem

Alone late at night while snookers the cat just hisses at you because your breath smells like loneliness? Not my problem.

Economically successful, have the fancy penthouse apartment, Prada bags and heels but can’t find a economically suitable man to share your life with, but need that itch scratched so Jack the ship builder from Tinder can drop by for a night or 2? Not. My. Problem. 

It’s very simple:

Your consequences are not my problem.

Shame me into what ever box you want.

From man child to king of the lost boys to commitment phobic.

I still won’t answer your call to suffer your consequences.

Luckily there are plenty who do:

https://theredarchive.com/blog/Rian-Stone/michaels-story-all-of-michaels-story.29888