5 Unpleasant Truths – 3

1. If you ride a motorcycle, you need to keep in mind that every other motherfucker on the road is trying to kill you. Which leads me to:

2. All you OTHER drivers. Start seeing motorcycles! The season is almost upon us, they will be out there with you. Put your phone down. Hang up and drive, and don’t fucking text and drive! Pay attention. Ever kill someone before? Let’s not do that.

3. Most people reading #2 will think, “I got this. No problem.” You won’t. You don’t.

4. As a pedestrian, you may have right of way. But going up against a moving vehicle, you’ll be right, alright. Dead right. Tonnage always wins. Yield right of way to tonnage.

5. Cops aren’t there to protect you. They are there to clean up the mess after it happens. Learn to defend yourself and those that you love and care about.

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Another 20 Thoughts On Life

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1. No one wants to hear the truth. Not really. They say they do, but they don’t.

2. Ideas are a dime a dozen. Actually, they are worth less than that. Ideas by themselves are worthless. The world is full of them. The world rewards execution.

3. Sometimes it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. Especially in the beginning.

4. Instead of comparing yourself to others, just compare yourself to yourself. Are you better today than you were yesterday? Even by 1%? That’s the goal. Do that.

5. The ugly truth beats a pretty lie every time.

6. Simpler is better. If at all possible, go simpler. In everything.

7. Get comfortable with violence. Violence in and of itself, isn’t inherently good or bad, it just is, no matter what the rest of “the world” says. Sometimes violence IS necessary. Sometimes violence IS the answer. Which brings me to:

8. Explore all your other options before going to violence. Ideally, violence should be your last option. But if needed, go all out.

9. In the “real world,” there are winners and there are losers, in spite of what you may have learned in school or on the playing field. Remember this. It will serve you well. It can be used by you, or it can be used against you. Your choice.

10. Get a pet if you don’t have one. They do wonders for your blood pressure, your body, your mind, and your soul.

11. The #1 Rule of Life: There are no rules.

12. The #2 Rule of Life: See Rule #1.

13. If you are going to have rules in your life besides Rule #1 and #2, make damn sure that they are your rules and not somebody else’s. Their rules serve to benefit them, not you.

14. Just because there are no inherent rules in life doesn’t mean that there aren’t consequences. Choose wisely. Choose accordingly.

15. The Meaning of Life: Whatever you make of it.

16. Help other’s if and when you can. But help yourself first. You’ll be able to do more for other’s that way.

17. It’s preferable if people treat you with love and respect, but if you can’t have that from them, fear works.

18. Get behind something. Anything really. Make it yours. If you don’t, you’ll find yourself drifting.

19. Taking action is better than sitting around thinking.

20. Over analysis leads to paralysis.

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5 More Unpleasant Truths – 2

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  1. Men, more likely than not, you are underestimating and undervaluing yourselves. You could do better. In probably everything you do.
  2. Ladies, more likely than not, you are overestimating and overvaluing yourselves. You aren’t as good, hot, or precious as you think you are. A saying I heard a long time ago, and I wish I knew who coined it so that I can give credit where credit is due goes, “Show me a hot woman, and I’ll show you a guy who’s tired of banging her.”
  3. Today is the youngest you’ll ever be again in your life. Think about that one for a moment. What the fuck are you doing with yourself right now? What are you wasting time on? What are you waiting around for?
  4. Women want to “marry up,” or “level up” in their relationships with men. They are hardwired to always seek something better. This is called hypergamy. It’s genetic and is part of who they are and goes back hundreds of thousands of years. So men, no matter how good looking you are, no matter how in shape you are, no matter how much money you make, there is always some other man out there that can outdo you. Doesn’t mean your woman WILL take off, but she COULD. That means get off your ass, stop being complacent. Ladies, you didn’t think I forgot about you, did you? Here’s yours: A man is hardwired to want to spread his seed as far and as wide as possible. He can be sexually aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter women. Watch the younger women. Female poachers are a real thing. Women love men who other women want to fuck. So ladies, get off your ass as well. Get in shape if you aren’t. Fuck your man more often than you do. “But we do it all the time!” Bullshit. I’ve never met a guy yet who complains that he’s getting too much pussy from his woman. We men will always want more. On a final note on this, just because a man is aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter, doesn’t mean he WILL “trade you in for a younger model,” but he COULD.
  5. Ladies, either you have autonomy, which means you have accountability, or you can’t be held accountable for anything you do or say, and are a perpetual victim, which means you need a personal chaperone with you at ALL TIMES. And guess what? If you need a chaperone because you can’t be held accountable, that chaperone is going to have to be a man. You can’t have it both ways. Men, stop holding yourselves accountable for shit you have absolutely no control over. You can’t control everything, which also means it isn’t always your fault even if society and your woman think it is. Stop being a plow horse. Refuse the yoke. But if it IS yours, and you can do something about it. Fucking OWN IT.

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