5 Unpleasant Truths – 9

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  1. Most of what you read, see, or hear won’t work for you. It’s bullshit. It’s one man’s take. It’s one author’s opinion. It doesn’t mean don’t try it out, or give it a shot, it just means that you have to do the work and find out what works for you.
  2. You’ll have to do a lot, and I mean A LOT of digging, searching, reading, watching, listening, and trying different things out to see what works for you. It can wear you out. Don’t let it. You’ll have to wade through a lot of fluff, filler, and bullshit to get to the kernel of truth inside.
  3. You got yourself where you are, right now, today. Your life, for better or worse, is YOUR FAULT.
  4. No one but you can turn your life around. No one but you can dig you out. You are on your own.
  5. There WILL be setbacks. There WILL be obstacles. There WILL be failures. There WILL be defeats. You will screw shit up. Royally sometimes. That’s okay. Keep going. Persevere.

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Even More 5 Unpleasant Truths – 8

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1. You keep putting off whatever it is you are putting off, you’ll never get around to it. You are creating a habit by doing this, and it’s not a good one. You’ll run out of time sooner than you think. Just do it, stop fucking around.

2. You can be right or you can be happy. Most of the time you can’t have both. Choose wisely.

3. Whatever it is you want out of life, you’re going to have to work for it. You’re going to have to earn it. No two ways about it.

4. It will take longer than you think it will. Always. Every time. Get used to that. It is what it is.

5. There are 3 types of people in the world: Those who make things happen, those who watch what happened, and those who wondered what happened. Which one are you?

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5 Unpleasant Truths…For Men – 7

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  1. You will be demonized, mocked, ridiculed, made fun of, and told you are broken and defective for your masculinity and for wanting to be masculine. Basically, it will seem and feel like the entire world is against you. Know this right now: You are not broken. You are not defective.
  2. You will be blamed for all the bullshit that women do and get themselves into. They avoid responsibility and accountability like the plague. If you have a dick, it’s automatically your fault. Don’t argue with them, don’t try to rationalize with them, and for god’s sake, don’t ever try to beg, plead, or negotiate with them.
  3. The burden of performance is on you. Women are born, Men are Made. Don’t fight it. Don’t try and deny it. Accept it and become better. Learn new skills. Take up new hobbies. Become more interesting. Become better.
  4. A lot of it, you’ll have to go it alone. The ‘Sphere is great for meeting like minds, it’s great for getting information you never had, it’s a good start. You’ll have to do the work. It’s on you and you alone to execute.
  5. Don’t expect any real thanks or credit from women for what you do and have done. Those things you do and have done? They are expected. They are just supposed to happen. It’s just what you do. Do it because you can, do it because you enjoy it, do it because you want to.

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