Red Pill and the 9 to 5

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On Saturday April 14th, I was part of the Red Man Group on YouTube. This is an event that was hosted by Rich Cooper of Entrepreneurs in Cars, Rollo Tomassi of The Rational Male, Donovan Sharpe of The Sharpe Reality, and Aaron Clarey of Asshole Consulting.

Most of you are probably not new to the ‘Sphere, and probably not new to the Red Pill either. If you are new, you need to check these men out. These guys are the real deal. One thing I noticed while I was in the company of these Men, is that I was the only one speaking out who has a “traditional” job. I work for someone else. My income is dependent on me showing up, doing the work, and them paying me for it. Most of the faces and voices speaking about the Red Pill are “anti-fragile” in one way or another. They don’t have a “boss” so to speak, and so they don’t have to worry about getting reprimanded or losing their jobs.

I had a man reach out to me on Twitter, giving me a shout-out for the fact that I’m speaking about the Red Pill and that I have a “9-5” job. It stopped me in my tracks for a moment and made me think.

I’m almost positive that there are more of “us” out there that are unplugging or are unplugged that hold down traditional jobs. Why don’t we hear from more of them? I think I already know the answer(s).

  1. They are too afraid to speak out. It could totally blow back on them and they could lose their jobs. Retaliation is real.
  2. They are too busy hustling and busting their asses to make ends meet. I’m sure many of these men are putting in the long hours to support a family, or at least to pay some form of child support and/or alimony.

What I’m trying to say is this:

Men, you are not alone. I’m right there with you about the job, the bills, the relationships in your life, etc. I get it.

Follow me on Twitter, sign up for my email list, comment here if you want. Tell me your story.

We are the “Silent Majority.” I know this. But we don’t have to stay silent. We can figure it out. We can change it.

One man at a time.

P.S. Here’s the video. It’s almost 2 hours long and worth the time. Check it out.

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5 Unpleasant Truths – 3

1. If you ride a motorcycle, you need to keep in mind that every other motherfucker on the road is trying to kill you. Which leads me to:

2. All you OTHER drivers. Start seeing motorcycles! The season is almost upon us, they will be out there with you. Put your phone down. Hang up and drive, and don’t fucking text and drive! Pay attention. Ever kill someone before? Let’s not do that.

3. Most people reading #2 will think, “I got this. No problem.” You won’t. You don’t.

4. As a pedestrian, you may have right of way. But going up against a moving vehicle, you’ll be right, alright. Dead right. Tonnage always wins. Yield right of way to tonnage.

5. Cops aren’t there to protect you. They are there to clean up the mess after it happens. Learn to defend yourself and those that you love and care about.

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5 More Unpleasant Truths – 2

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  1. Men, more likely than not, you are underestimating and undervaluing yourselves. You could do better. In probably everything you do.
  2. Ladies, more likely than not, you are overestimating and overvaluing yourselves. You aren’t as good, hot, or precious as you think you are. A saying I heard a long time ago, and I wish I knew who coined it so that I can give credit where credit is due goes, “Show me a hot woman, and I’ll show you a guy who’s tired of banging her.”
  3. Today is the youngest you’ll ever be again in your life. Think about that one for a moment. What the fuck are you doing with yourself right now? What are you wasting time on? What are you waiting around for?
  4. Women want to “marry up,” or “level up” in their relationships with men. They are hardwired to always seek something better. This is called hypergamy. It’s genetic and is part of who they are and goes back hundreds of thousands of years. So men, no matter how good looking you are, no matter how in shape you are, no matter how much money you make, there is always some other man out there that can outdo you. Doesn’t mean your woman WILL take off, but she COULD. That means get off your ass, stop being complacent. Ladies, you didn’t think I forgot about you, did you? Here’s yours: A man is hardwired to want to spread his seed as far and as wide as possible. He can be sexually aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter women. Watch the younger women. Female poachers are a real thing. Women love men who other women want to fuck. So ladies, get off your ass as well. Get in shape if you aren’t. Fuck your man more often than you do. “But we do it all the time!” Bullshit. I’ve never met a guy yet who complains that he’s getting too much pussy from his woman. We men will always want more. On a final note on this, just because a man is aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter, doesn’t mean he WILL “trade you in for a younger model,” but he COULD.
  5. Ladies, either you have autonomy, which means you have accountability, or you can’t be held accountable for anything you do or say, and are a perpetual victim, which means you need a personal chaperone with you at ALL TIMES. And guess what? If you need a chaperone because you can’t be held accountable, that chaperone is going to have to be a man. You can’t have it both ways. Men, stop holding yourselves accountable for shit you have absolutely no control over. You can’t control everything, which also means it isn’t always your fault even if society and your woman think it is. Stop being a plow horse. Refuse the yoke. But if it IS yours, and you can do something about it. Fucking OWN IT.

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