1. Men, more likely than not, you are underestimating and undervaluing yourselves. You could do better. In probably everything you do.
2. Ladies, more likely than not, you are overestimating and overvaluing yourselves. You aren’t as good, hot, or precious as you think you are. A saying I heard a long time ago, and I wish I knew who coined it so that I can give credit where credit is due goes, “Show me a hot woman, and I’ll show you a guy who’s tired of banging her.”
3. Today is the youngest you’ll ever be again in your life. Think about that one for a moment. What the fuck are you doing with yourself right now? What are you wasting time on? What are you waiting around for?
4. Women want to “marry up,” or “level up” in their relationships with men. They are hardwired to always seek something better. This is called hypergamy. It’s genetic and is part of who they are and goes back hundreds of thousands of years. So men, no matter how good looking you are, no matter how in shape you are, no matter how much money you make, there is always some other man out there that can outdo you. Doesn’t mean your woman WILL take off, but she COULD. That means get off your ass, stop being complacent. Ladies, you didn’t think I forgot about you, did you? Here’s yours: A man is hardwired to want to spread his seed as far and as wide as possible. He can be sexually aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter women. Watch the younger women. Female poachers are a real thing. Women love men who other women want to fuck. So ladies, get off your ass as well. Get in shape if you aren’t. Fuck your man more often than you do. “But we do it all the time!” Bullshit. I’ve never met a guy yet who complains that he’s getting too much pussy from his woman. We men will always want more. On a final note on this, just because a man is aroused and attracted to younger, hotter, tighter, doesn’t mean he WILL “trade you in for a younger model,” but he COULD.
5. Ladies, either you have autonomy, which means you have accountability, or you can’t be held accountable for anything you do or say, and are a perpetual victim, which means you need a personal chaperone with you at ALL TIMES. And guess what? If you need a chaperone because you can’t be held accountable, that chaperone is going to have to be a man. You can’t have it both ways. Men, stop holding yourselves accountable for shit you have absolutely no control over. You can’t control everything, which also means it isn’t always your fault even if society and your woman think it is. Stop being a plow horse. Refuse the yoke. But if it IS yours, and you can do something about it. Fucking OWN IT.

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