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Even More 5 Unpleasant Truths – 8

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1. You keep putting off whatever it is you are putting off, you’ll never get around to it. You are creating a habit by doing this, and it’s not a good one. You’ll run out of time sooner than you think. Just do it, stop fucking around.

2. You can be right or you can be happy. Most of the time you can’t have both. Choose wisely.

3. Whatever it is you want out of life, you’re going to have to work for it. You’re going to have to earn it. No two ways about it.

4. It will take longer than you think it will. Always. Every time. Get used to that. It is what it is.

5. There are 3 types of people in the world: Those who make things happen, those who watch what happened, and those who wondered what happened. Which one are you?

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On Tribes

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Lately I’ve been giving this a lot of thought. With the attacks on men and masculinity, with the invasion of the Feminine Imperative into everything Man, where is a Man supposed to go?

We’ve got the ‘Sphere for advice and Men are coming together around the world, at least digitally, and “creating our own space,” so to speak.

But what about in “the real world?” I know for me at least, finding like minded men, men who are good at being men, men who would have my back in a crisis, men who can actually “get shit done,” men who honor their word, men who are men and are not soy, are few and far between.

If I want to physically meet up with like minded Men, I will have to do a road trip at a minimum. More likely, I’ll have to hop on an airplane to go visit them. I don’t have a problem with that. With modern transportation, it’s totally an option. It’s totally doable. But what about if or when “shit hits the fan?” Hopping on an airplane most likely won’t be an option then. Same goes for the road trip.

It’s unfortunate that most men around me, most men that live within a certain proximity, like walking distance of a couple miles or so, are still plugged into the matrix. They are still eating garbage, talking garbage, and pandering to garbage.

I tweeted about this a few weeks ago when I talked about the Myth of the Lone Wolf:

It’s unfortunate that most men see the Myth of the Lone Wolf as the ideal. In the long run, it’s not. If we as Men are to truly effect change, we need to be in actual proximity of one another. Jack Donovan is doing exactly that. He’s got his Gang. He’s got his actual living, breathing, in the flesh Tribe.

We’ve got our digital Tribe with the ‘Sphere, Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, Gab, websites and blogs, but ultimately, is it enough? Is it truly enough when an actual honest to god crisis happens? Is it enough when shit hits the fan? Are “thoughts and prayers” online going to actually be enough when something goes down?

I don’t think so.

Unfortunately in our day and age, for the majority at least, you as a Man will have to be the Lone Wolf. All of the guys who are still plugged in won’t be able to help you. They’ll be too soft, too weak, and looking for someone else to save them.

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5 More Unpleasant Truths – 6

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  1. Ladies, I can’t necessarily speak for other men, but I love you. God knows I do. However… You really need to back off wanting to be in all the men’s spaces. You don’t need to be in all of them or even most of them. You have plenty of your own spaces, go play there. Leave the men be. This leads me to:
  2. Men, for the love of all that is holy, take your fucking spaces back! Stop inviting the women in, stop letting them in without a fight. Stop capitulating. Grow a set of balls, grow a spine, and learn to use the word: NO.
  3. Let’s talk about “equality” shall we? Ladies, when you have to sign up for selective service, when you decide to join the men collecting the garbage, climbing the power poles, digging the trenches, cleaning the sewers, roofing the houses, framing the houses, plowing the highways, digging in the mines, laying the cement, installing the power lines, chopping down the trees, slaughtering the animals for food, working on the oil rigs, building the buildings, transporting hazardous chemicals, refining the oil, etc., ad nauseum. I think you get the point. Then we can actually talk about “equality.” Until then, let’s suffice it to say that you’ve got it better. Read The Priviledged Sex and then get back to me.
  4. Guys, stop with the bragging. You sound like a blow-hard. No one but you buys your shit. When you brag, you are compensating. Keep that in mind. Think big truck, little dick. Your actions will speak far louder than words.
  5. Stop pandering to the women for the pussy. You ain’t gonna get it that way.

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